December 30, 2014
Like in all good things in life…they go by fast when you are enjoying them! When I was first told the diaconate formation program would take five years, I thought I would never get done. A brother Deacon gave me a major moment of clarity. This “program” is a life long walk. The first five years are only part of that walk, not an ends to a mean.
I always admired my brother deacons. I do so even more now. My closest friends tell me that because of my many faults, my five year program will actually take me ten years to complete! Actually, the first year is one of discernment. Its called the year of aspirancy. After the first two semesters the aspirant applies for formal candidacy. If approved, the candidacy takes the next three years. After that, the archbishop has to accept the candidate as an ordinant; this final year gets you prepared for ordination.
My wife has been and will continue to be a partner in this walk. Throughout this process the archbishop stays in constant contact with my life partner. We were told from the first step that she is my closest and best advisor. I have also been blessed by a wonderful spiritual advisor: Father Damian Flanagan. We also chose a deacon couple to mentor us throughout this process: Deacon and Mrs. Raul Flores. Deacon Roberto Fleitas and his wife Nancy, continue to be an inspiration to Maxine and I throughout this process….
I know the Lord will rain blessings on us throughout this process. I also understand the Evil one will do all possible to keep me from getting closer to my Lord. Even though there are and will continue to be trials, at the end of the process, the Lord will always prevail.
One of my major goals, that my prayer is focused on, is on bringing some of my Emmaus and Knight brothers to this walk as future deacons. There are many willing and few are called. But I am confidant those few called will be part of my wonderful Emmaus and Knight community. I hope my calling can be an inspiration to my brothers and their families to step up their service to the Lord.
Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me….I once was lost, but now am found; was blind, but now can see…..Keep my family and me in your prayers….
Your Brother in Christ; Vivat Jesus!
August 8, 2014
They played an April fools joke but in August! When I arrived they had opened the letter from the archdiocese and read me aloud my acceptance to the diaconate program! Once I got over my daughter not being hurt, I was ecstatic about the acceptance! As I explained in my most recent blog, this is a calling I have felt for most of my adult life. My wife Maxine also decided to make a big commitment to her faith by agreeing to join the Archdiocese Adult Lay Ministry Program. This will help us both continue to grow in our faith and as a couple. Both my daughters, Cami and Isa are very happy for me as well.
I know this new path will be challenging – but also know the many blessings that will flow. I have been blessed with a wonderful prayer community. My Emmaus brothers, fellow Knights and the couples of the marriage encounters have all been a source of inspiration for me. Their prayers have strengthened me and will continue to do so. I am humbled to follow in the footsteps of my mentors Deacon Flores and Deacon Fleitas. They too have been inspirational examples of Catholic men. My pastor, Father Michael Davis, wrote a beautiful recommendation letter for me and I hope to make him proud as well…..
I start on Saturday, September 13th. Stay tuned as I update my blog while I go through this wonderful new challenge!
February 6, 2014
Our non-Catholic brothers are missing out on one of the greatest blessings we enjoy as Catholics, our Holy Mother. One tends to over hear the oddest comments in busy restaurants. The other day (not meaning to eavesdrop but she was so loud! ) I overheard a diner state: Oh Mary is no big deal; she was just a vessel… That comment shook me to my core. She was just a vessel the same way Jesus was just a prophet!
On October 16, 2002, the 24th Anniversary of his election as Roman Pontiff, Blessed Pope John Paul II signed the Apostolic Letter Rosarium Virginis Mariae (the Rosary of the Virgin Mary) that presents the Rosary as an outstanding way to contemplate the face and mysteries of Christ. He also proclaimed a “Year of the Rosary”, which extended from October 2002 to October 2003.
For 900 years there have been three series of five mysteries in the Rosary: the Joyous (the infancy of Jesus), the Sorrowful (the Passion of Jesus), and the Glorious (Christ and Heaven). Given that in these 15 mysteries prayed up until now the great events of Christ’s public life were not contemplated, in the new apostolic letter the Pontiff adds five mysteries, which he calls the “mysteries of light”: 1) Jesus’s Baptism in the Jordan, 2) His self-manifestation at the wedding of Cana, 3) His proclamation of the Kingdom of God with the invitation to conversion, 4) His Transfiguration on Mount Thabor, 5) His institution of the Eucharist. (http://www.michaeljournal.org/rosary.htm),
Mary was the chosen one. Just as the prophets before and the disciples afterwards. Mary was chosen by God to give birth, raise, nurture and be part of the death and resurrection of our Lord. Mary has been present through various apparitions being there to console and prod us in our faith. Father Michael E. Gaitley has published a treasure of a book allowing us to learn more about the Holy Mother and to consecrate ourselves to her. 33 Days to Morning Glory has 33 short daily reflections. These reflections are from devoted Marians including Blessed John Paul the II (to be canonized April 22, 2014).
There is one particularly powerful reflection in the book. It hits home because we have a daughter living in Los Angeles that we are constantly praying for. St. Maximilian Kolbe calls us to put our prayerful petitions in the Holy Mother’s hands. Then he goes a step further. He tells Her to use his prayer and sacrifices and use them for someone else in more dire need. Having full faith that Mary will get to our petition when it is really needed. That has helped me immensely. Even though we fear for our daughter’s safety I now put those fears in Mary’s hands. I pray to Her to first help those girls more in need than my daughter with the full faith of knowing my daughter will be protected when need be….. This reflection has brought great peace to me.
I was blessed that my father was a Marian devotee and hope my example awakens in my daughters the same love of Mary.
Mary Queen of Peace, pray for us!
December 21, 2012
So this morning at 5:30am our intrepid cycling club, termed the “B” team by our faster brothers and sisters, went on our morning ride. This morning the B Team is down from our usual 3 riders to just Elias and I…. Our third brother doesn’t like to ride when it’s under 80 degrees or over 85 degrees or if it is a Monday or Friday…..!
We began the year by riding 10 miles in an hour… For those mathematically challenged, it works out to an average speed of 10 miles per hour. The “A” team is quite concerned about that since they do around 25 miles in the same time span…. However, now, by the end of the year, we are riding 14 miles in the same hours time! I don’t know about you but in my book that’s progress…. Maybe by this time next year we can get it to 20 miles per hour…but I wouldn’t hold my breadth…. You see we do this more for the camaraderie of spending time with fellow Catholic men and the hope of losing a few pounds…Not necessarily with the idea of becoming Olympians…
Of course when we peddled off this morning our thoughts turned to the Mayan Calender predicting December 21st as the end of time….My 13 year old tells me that is because that’s when the calendar stopped…. except that recently the rest of the calendar was found behind someone’s sofa so life as we know it continues….
In order to boost our ride to 14 miles Elias and I bravely searched for a new route, albeit in the darkness typical of Coral Gables streets before the sun comes up. So of course we get lost in a community we have lived in for many, many years…. You see instead of elevated street signs, the Gables has little markers on the ground level virtually impossible to see in daylight, imagine in darkness!
It is now heatedly debated who said what about having to go South when we needed to go North…. He mentioned something about checking our GPS but real men don’t do that… or so I claimed… You see my brother Elias has a lot of wonderful qualities and like all of us he has a few lovable personal characteristics as well… One of them is his ability to cry at a moment’s notice… So wanting to avoid that I relented and stopped and checked my GPS. Guess what? We were going the wrong way!
And now you know the rest of the story as to how we got to 14 miles on the day the world was supposed to end!
August 17, 2012
Three best friends, one dream…. Now they are all gone. My father, the youngest of the three, was under the tutelage of the two older cousins; one whom I called my uncle. When the United States invaded the Bay of Pigs, before President Kennedy lost the little backbone that he had, the three of them had pivotal roles preparing for the invasion. Angel and Mario were able to escape to Miami and evade Castro and Guevara, who were on a murderous rampage. Eduardo, in charge of the CIA radio operations for the invasion was caught and served 18 years in one of the cruelest prisons known to mankind.
They ninicknamed him “El Abuelo” because he was older than all the other prisoners of conscience. He became part of the original group of “plantados” nicknamed because of the way they stood firm against their jailers. One of the plantados would later on become the Ambassador to the United Nations Human Rights Commission named by President Reagan; a president with backbone to spare…. Ambassador Valladares wrote a tell all book of the horrific experiences of Castro’s jails: “Against All Hope”. It is a riveting account of these prisoners being abused physically and psychologically. Forced to go naked for months on end. Sent to the firing squad then fired at with blanks. Sleep deprivation and lack of medical attention were the least of their problems.
Mario continued on the CIA payroll in Miami in charge of finances and benefits for those heroes that survived Kennedy’s betrayal. My father Angel was an exemplary man as a father, husband and man of faith. A lawyer in Cuba, in Miami he washed dishes and worked odd jobs until he became a social worker. At the pinnacle of his governmental career he was named by then Florida Governor Ruben Askew as the Director of the Cuban Refugee Program; the largest of its kind in the nation. Meanwhile, Eduardo spent his most productive years in Catro’s hellhole.
I remember like it was yesterday the day Eduardo was released then was flown to Miami. He walked into our house to hugs, kisses and tears. He looked at me and asked my father if I was the one destined to become a priest! Eduardo’s psyche was intact and his spirit as as strong as ever. Mario and my father Angel both passed away years ago. Eduardo carried the torch for both of them and for all those in exile praying for a free Cuba. We spent weekends suffering the Dolphins and weekdays lamenting the free fall of the Marlins….He was ever presnt at all our family affairs
I found out a few weeks ago that Eduardo was suffering from a blood disorder. I had the good fortune of spending some time with him just two days ago. This morning, Mario’s son, my cousin, called to tell me of Eduardo’s passing. If I am fortunate to get to Heaven and even more fortunate to be able to quiz our Lord at that time….I will ask why men of God leave us so early while those that serve the devil tend to stick around for so damn long….
I know that the three cousins are now together and enjoying our Lord’s everlasting glory. I pray that their dream of a free Cuba comes sooner rather than later and that their years of fight and determination are rewarded. Eduardo’s passing brings to an earthly close the friendship of the three patriots that I knew and loved. It is up to my generation and that of my two daughters – to contine the good fight…. Angel, Mario and Eduardo: La Patria Los Contemplas Orgullosos….
July 24, 2012
I’ve admired Cuban dissident and practicing Catholic Oswaldo Paya for a number of reasons. Not the least of which is that he decided to fight the good fight from within the iron shackled island instead of from the comfy land of exile. Paya was apparently silenced by being run off the road while driving in a remote section of Cuba.
Paya founded the Varela Project; named after now venerated Cuban priest Felix Varela. Varela lived through the Spanish occupation and was credited for teaching Cubans how to think for themselves; independently of the Spanish Crown.
The Varela Project collected signatures across the island in order to show the communist government a desire from the people for a new democratic and socially responsible constitution. The petition was turned into the government never to be heard of again……
I spoke to a recent arrival and was told the vast majority of Cubans never heard of Paya and even less of the Varela Project. Fewer still have heard of the Cuban Blogger Yoani Sanchez; whose blog is read by millions around the free world. It is sad to think that in 2012 an entire society, only 90 miles away from the Southernmost point of the United States, lives in total darkness. There is only one official radio station and television station and one newspaper.
The Arab Spring had one major denominator that had a direct causal effect on their victory over a totalitarian government: a vibrant internet community. Twitter and Facebook played a dominant part in allowing the dissident movement to communicate their plan amongst each other. Yoanni Sanchez hides in touristy internet bars in Havana while transmitting her most inner thoughts. The ten million or so Cubans left in Cuba are forced to fend by themselves while the marxist government controls every aspect of their lives.
Let’s pray that the heroic Cubans fighting from within find a small crevice to hold on to as they climb the wall of inevitability; a democratically elected government where freedom of speech and religion are in the forefront. Paya’s dream will be fulfilled and Yoanni will be able to sit on the malecon in the open and blog to her heart’s content!
June 23, 2012
After almost 3 days of not hearing from our seafaring banking brother…. He made a quick post to his FB of a picture of a marina at Routan, Honduras…. Apparently the internet communication at the island is very poor and he hasn’t been able to write a full update… But at least we know he is OK! More news to follow…..
Marina at Routan, Honduras… the 37 foot boat keeps chugging along !